Nobu Engagement Anniversary Dinner At Home

May 24 2008 was the date my wife and I got engaged at Matsuhisa, LA. I had talked with Matsuhisa-sama during my visit to Matsuhisa the prior December about doing an surprise engagement dinner for my now wife.  We were seated at a corner table on the wall opposite the sushi bar ( – see the table situated next to wall on the left side of the picture). Just prior to the beginning of dinner, I handed Matsuhisa-sama the engagement ring so that he could bring it out with one of the omakase courses, resulting in the fact that the moment to propose to my wife would be as much as a surprise for her as it would be for me.

Here’s what we had for our omakase engagement dinner

Chilled Chawanmushi
Baby tomato, junsai, Nobu gin’an, gold leaf

Red Snapper Roe Tempura, miso sauce/Fava tempura skewer
lobster ceviche
white fish sashimi, Nobu XO salsa, ponzu, cucumber strip
Hirame new style sashimi

Toro ‘Steak’ Wrapped In Gold Leaf
Kaiware, wakame (Nori Tsukudani?) karashi su miso

When my wife and I tasted this dish, we both agreed it wasn’t wakame that was in the dish but more likely nori tsukudani, which both of us had when we were growing up. Of all the courses we had for the omakase, this is probably the dish she liked the most. I still make this for her every May 24th. At this point I was sort of beginning to wonder when the ring was going to show up…

Abalone, Lobster, Sharkfin ‘Soup’
Shaved White Truffle

So after the waitress had cleared the plates from our 3rd course, she returned with our 4th course and served me first.  Now remember we were seated at a corner table on the wall opposite the sushi bar.  So then Matsuhisa-sama came walking up quietly behind my wife and was nodding frantically with a big grin at me as he started to place the soup bowl in front of my wife…with the lobster claw wearing the engagement ring pointed at her.  I didn’t realize for a split second until I saw the glint of the diamond in the restaurant light and quickly got down on one knee to propose to her.  At the point, everyone in the restaurant started applauding.  My wife, speechless, finally reacted by nodding ‘yes’ (to which everyone began applauding again).

Kobe Ishiyaki
kabocha, broccoli, onion, nameko, shiitake, enoki,
scallion ponzu and miso anticucho dipping sauces

toro, kinmedai/cilantro/rocoto chile dot,
sayori/egg yolk crumble/salt,
kanpachi, unagi

Akadashi Miso Soup
Mitsuba, nameko

Fresh Cut Fruit, Vanilla Ice Cream
Pineapple ‘tarte’ with Coconut Ice Cream
banana walnut ‘cake’ with swirled vanilla/chocolate sauce

We will remember this omakase forever.  Matsuhisa-sama, thank you to you and everyone at Matsuhisa who made this possible.

* * *

So as I mentioned earlier, I’ve made course #3 from the omakase meal every May 24th.  Instead of using the gold leaf for the dish, I’ve chosen to use o-toro in place of the gold leaf and the toro.  I’m grateful to Sakanaya in Allston, MA for having the ingredient (   It’s been really difficult to get o-toro to make this meal in recent years.  So the engagement anniversary meal was –

Tomato ‘Sashimi’
extra virgin olive oil, yuzu, dried miso

OToro ‘Steak’
Broccoli Floret, nori tsukudani karashi su miso

Side Of Blanched Broccoli

 I all ready had all the ingredients for the tomato ‘sashimi’ started.  All I really needed to do was to make the sauce of the Otoro ‘steak’.  The online recipe can be found here –

So I scaled the recipe for the sauce, replacing the wakame with the nori tsukadani so that it would be enough for about 8 tablespoons (4 tablespoons/person)

Nori Tsukudani Karashi Su Miso
1/2 teaspoons                       karashi paste
1 teaspoon                             water
4 tablespoons                        Nobu-style Saikyo Miso (
1 tablespoon+1/2 teaspoon rice vinegar
3 tablespoons                        nori tsukudani
2 tablespoons                        water (to thin the sauce)

Ingredients for nori tsukadani karashi su miso

Make the karashi su miso sauce base

Measure out 3 level tablespoons of nori tsukudani

Add in the karashi su miso base

Nori tuskudani karashi su miso sauce

I pretty much followed the online recipe in terms of preparing the (O)toro steak using 1 teaspoon of a 4:1 salt/pepper mix with a 1/2 teaspoon of garlic powder and dry rubbed the Otoro with it.  The Otoro was dry

Seasoning the otoro 'steaks'

seared in a hot pan and then cooked 2 min/side at 50% max power (cooked in its own fat).  While that was cooking, I plated a sliced tomato with extra virgin olive oil, yuzu juice and topped the tomato slices with dried white miso, Nobu-style –

Tomato 'Sashimi', extra virgin olive oil, yuzu, dried white miso

I then plated 4 tablespoons of the nori tsukudani karashi su miso sauce per plate while the otoro was resting –

Plating the sauce before the otoro

and then added the otoro –

Otoro Steak With Nori Tsukudani Karashi Su Miso Sauce

and of course, we had a side of my wife’s favorite vegetable – blanched broccoli.


Otoro – Sakanaya, Allston, MA

, , , , , ,

  1. Leave a comment

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

%d bloggers like this: